What is gender?

Gender definition is defined as the physical difference between a man and a woman. But I think it contributes to so much more than that. It is a distinction on how we will be raised, what we do, what we are involved in, how we act, and our lives in general.
Middle school girls are affected by their self esteem throughout middle school, creating scholarly problems throughout these years. Once their self esteem drops states Sadker so does their test scores. And once they start to drop it creates more of a problem for their self esteem, a vicious cycle! Girls in the classroom are said to be eight times less likely to call out answers as boys. I think the self esteem issue has a big thing to do with it. When your feeling low that last thing you want to do is call out a wrong answer and be embarrassed in front of the class. And I think a small incident like this can lead to a girl’s fear of answering out in class, because they are easily influenced and upset at this time in their life. Where as boys develop at a later age so they call out more frequently, not caring as much if they have the wrong answer. I believe this is why teachers call on male students more frequently, because they feel they will not take criticism so hard. In Sadker’s article he states that girls that do call out get reprimanded faster. This sounds awful! I haven’t really recognized this much, but I will now be on the look out for it. Especially as emotional sensitive girls are at this age, if we reprimand them and embarrass them in front of the whole class for no reason, no wonder they don’t raise their hands and call out answers. From my stand point if a child doesn’t ask the questions that are on their mind or are not confident with the material this makes them sink lower into confidence level and makes it harder for them to understand for test time. Students need to feel open in a classroom and be able to especially ask questions. If they don’t ask then the answer may never come clear to them. I hope in my classroom I will try and be aware of who I call on and what I say, most importantly, to a wrong answer. I by no means want to crush ones confidence and self esteem, so I will try and use the scaffolding approach and guide the student to the right answer on their own, so they are proud of how they came across it.